Saturday, October 12, 2013

Published on HottyToddy.com

For my Journalism 102 class our goal is to write to be published. Thankfully on my first story I was published on hottytoddy.com.

Click the link to read my story on the new fad E-cigarettes.


Friday, October 11, 2013

Delta Tribe

Ten reasons why Bid Day was one of the happiest day of the year:
1. We celebrated life and St. Jude
 
2. We spent so many hours together + bond. It's also the week Ali got to shine as rush chair!
3. Yummy treats like these got delivered to the house
 4. Craft time & making new D's
 5. I mean, does this crew get any better? ^^
 6. 3/5 of the Lollapalooza gang was reunited at the DDD House
 7. It's finally our time as pledge trainers to spend time with the new baby dolphins and love on them.
8. Ann Marie & I were reunited after a week of living apart 
 9. One of the happiest moments is when the bid list is read out loud to the chapter at the top of the stairs
 10. All of our babies came swimming home! 
Now, let the six weeks as one of the pledge trainers begin! 

Tuesday, October 1, 2013

Inside the walls...

Rush can be a weird thing, right? If you're from the North, you probably don't even know what it is like to be in the South during recruitment week. It's full of decorations, big colorful signs, lots of rush workshops and songs, skits, and even more when getting to know the potential new members. It may seem caddy. You want your house to have the best girls, you want your #1 best friend from high school to come running into your arms on bid day, and you certainly don't want another house to get your favorite girls. What we need to focus on, is that the Lord will put the girls in their right houses, not us.

Here at Ole Miss, we have recruitment week about six weeks into school, unlike most other colleges. At other schools, you go a week early before school starts, rush, and then begin the school year. Ole Miss is lucky to have those six weeks.

During those six weeks we become friends with the girls going through recruitment. The girls see how the sororities act on campus and the members of the sororities can truly create a friendship with the rushees (I know that's not "correct" to call them that, but I didn't know what else to say). Within these six weeks I just experienced, I have met so many new girls that are all incredible and any house would be lucky to have them.

And while all of this is going on six weeks into school, you're balancing your social life, your sorority life, your school work and your family, you become a little overwhelmed. That test might not have gone the way you wanted it to go or your paper might not have reached the full word limit. But I can guarantee you this.. Whatever you were doing that night instead of studying your flashcards for that Anatomy & Physiology test, you will remember. You won't remember that test. If you're painting canvases to give away on Bid Day or if you are having a heart-to-heart with your neighbor in the dorm or DDD House, these are the moments you will remember.

Recruitment brings out the best in everyone, which is hard to believe. Take a look around though. All the houses are about to embark on the one week they have been preparing for since the spring. The recruitment teams specifically chosen by each sorority will get their week to shine and their hard work will pay off.

Amidst the chaos and confusion of rush week, you find happiness, smiles, hugs and tears. Whether it's because your friend didn't go the sorority you thought, or maybe she went your same sorority and you finally get to be sisters, or you're just touched by one of the speeches given during the recruitment rounds, this week is full of so many emotions.

What I love so much about rush is how much it makes me realize how much I love my sorority. Yes, I love the date parties, I love the cute t-shirts we get after each event, and I love walking into the big doors of Tri Delta every day and calling this place home. I love the kitchen staff in the mornings wishing me a happy day and I love how Mr. Kenny bakes you cookies if he knows you are going home to visit your family. I love dance parties in the hallways and I love hearing "Roar" by Katy Perry blast through the house at any given moment.

What I love even more though is the girls inside these walls. The girls I've met here at Tri Delta encourage me to be better every day. To not take "no" for an answer, to encourage me in my walk with the Lord, and to be a shoulder for me to cry on when I come back after a long day.

What I love the most is how much this house has changed me. Looking back at who I was in high school in comparison to now, I am better. The girls in this house taught me how to love one another and be loved on by friends who care. Nothing against my high school friends, but these girls have helped me grow into the person I will become for the rest of my life.

Rush is hectic. I'm not here to tell you it isn't. Some girls get the house of their dreams, while others will be let free from recruitment because the Lord has a bigger & better plan for them. I can't promise you that everyone ends up exactly where they think they are supposed to be.

I can promise you this though. My sorority has impacted me in ways I will always remember and also in ways I probably haven't even seen or realized yet. Behind these walls my life has been rocked and because I know these girls and can call them family, I've been changed for the better.

Tri Delta at Ole Miss has strengthened my relationship with the Lord and led me to pour into other girls. It has taught me to be held accountable, to be there for my friends whenever they need me to be, and to love my friends every day. Walking through these halls I am uplifted by every girl I pass. Whether I am their best friend or just an acquaintance, if I needed anyone in this house, they would be there for me whenever I needed it.

I've always had a hard time explaining what it is like to be inside the walls of Tri Delta, and I still don't feel like I fully expressed what it is like to be a member in this chapter. My mom wasn't in a sorority and sometimes it may seem like my parents just pay the bills. What no one understands is the love inside these walls and you don't really get the full experience unless you're on the inside. It is the strangest, yet most incredible bond.

Tri Delta has changed my life for the better and I hope with these girls going through recruitment this week, they can find a place to call home, just as I did. Whether they come running down Sorority Row, swimming home to Tri Delta, or if they make any other turn to the other eight sorority houses on this campus, everyone ends up where they are supposed to be. The Lord knows where he can use you and make you grow.



Homesickness

Check out my post this week on Hello Perfect about how being homesick is okay. Don't worry, you're not alone! 




Monday, September 23, 2013

Fall Favorites

These are a few of my favorite things about fall:

Starbucks Pumpkin Spice Lattes
soup, apple cider + pumpkin bread
big sweaters + leggings
boots, booties + suede
scarves, jackets, fur + layering
the leaves changing colors
the crisp air in the morning while walking to class
sleeping in oversized sweaters + coffee
little cuties in halloween costumes
leaf pile jumping
pumpkin carving



Fall also brings me New York City this year which is enough of a reason 
in itself to be excited 

Friday, September 20, 2013

Weekend Escape: New Orleans

My Photo Diary of New Orleans
The pictures say it all: 
Juan's Flying Burrito for dinner followed by Brocato's gelato 
Breakfast at La Boulangerie -- mocha + almond and chocolate scone
Perfect details scattered all over New Orleans
The French Quarter
Bourbon Street, Royal Street and the Cathedral 
Lunch at Mahoney's Po-Boy shop
shrimp po-boy + onion rings + barq's root bear
Lili's Vintage Boutique 
Obviously we found Free People
Sucre for an afternoon snack of macarons 
Dinner at Dat Dog
Kendall: crawfish hotdog
Frances: original hot dog
Ann Marie: italian sausage
Me: sea dog (fish)
Breakfast before hitting the road at Morning Call
coffee + beignets + gumbo
Pit stop in Jackson, MS to eat at Brent's (where a part of The Help was filmed)
grilled pimento cheese sandwich + fries + vanilla milkshake

Thursday, September 19, 2013

Catching Dreams

I know all of you know that song by Hall & Oates "You Make My Dreams Come True." If not:
Well you see, Wednesday morning (yesterday),  around 5:39 a.m. to be exact, I received an email from Teen Vogue informing me that I've been accepted into their program Teen Vogue Fashion University, which is a weekend in New York full of seminars and special events. Teen Vogue and my parents made my dreams come true!

I applied for this weekend randomly a few weeks ago before school started. I found it online and thought this would be an incredible experience, and my new life motto these days is about applying to anything and you will get whatever you are meant to get. I sent in my sketches, answered some questions about who my fashion icons are, and sent in photos of myself in my favorite outfits so they could see what my sense of style was like.

On September 5th I remember looking on Twitter and searching keywords about TVFU because it had been a few weeks since I had applied. I saw that so many girls got their acceptance letters that day and the day before so I assumed I didn't get in. I told my friends I didn't get accepted, but this morning everything changed! This Hall & Oates song has been on my mind all day. I cannot contain my excitement and I am feeling so blessed to be able to have this opportunity.

Thankfully I have the most incredible parents who support me in what I want to do, and I have the most incredible friends who are going to join me in the Big Apple! All I did was tell them and invite them, next thing I know me and six of my best friends are planning our trip on October 17th to NYC!

I will get to attend seminars by the owner of Warby Parker, the DANNIJO sisters, listen in on panels held by Teen Vogue, attend a private event hosted by Shopbop and more! Also, I will be live tweeting for Hello Perfect the whole weekend. I'll give more details on that later and what hashtag you can keep up with.

New York City, I am coming for you!